Tips on early stages of dating

You “just went out for a few drinks after work” when actually you popped to the Tesco Extra to get a bottle of Fanta, and you’ve just had “a chilled night with a couple of mates and a takeaway” when actually that chilled night was spent completely by yourself, eating Curly Fries and watching Here Comes Honey Boo Boo marathons.A general rule is that if you don’t have anything interesting to text then probably just don’t bother. It's nice to hear nothing but your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning. It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background.

I don’t know, maybe it was a really interesting episode of Corrie that night, but it was a texting faux pas that automatically put me off said soap fan.

So take your foot off the accelerator and let a man initiate his interactions with you.

Only then will you progress to…This is that “in-between” stage.

Instead, a man will normally go through certain stages first before he decides you’re “it.” Here’s what they are, and how to handle them so he’s comfortable to move forward: In the early stages of dating, you take on one of two roles: the Convincer or the Resistor.

It’s important for you to be the Resistor and not the Convincer.

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